Why are men scared of love? Well let me rephrase that , why are some humans afraid of such a beautiful feeling?
I have therapeutic conversations with myself on my drives. Its soothing and I untangle some issues myself with the help of the more advanced portion of my self the higher self. I understand that we all have been hurt at some point in our lives. Trust me I have felt some heartbreak. But why is love blamed ?
Love is pure, love is our essence. It’s who we are in our core. Once of course we let our ego take a back seat. But we all tend to blame love. We must learn to separate love from the human cause of pain.
You know what hurt me? Lies. It breaks trust, once that is gone we have all these doubts about that special someone. We start creating situations and scenarios and drive ourselves crazy. We cause unnecessary turmoil to ourselves.
Cheating hurts. Feeling like we aren’t good enough. Causing us to feel less than, unworthy. Leading us to feel inadequate, or as if we are lacking something. We compare ourselves and wonder why? What did I do?
Those things cause heartache. I just don’t understand humans who cheat or lie. Why not just be honest. Communication isn’t present. You can be doing it all right and still betrayal . Its not love. Humans who don’t understand what love is or who are scared of surrendering themselves to it inflict pain. Sometimes its unintentional its self sabotage.
I understand though, I really do.
But despite all of it, I want it. I miss the connection humans in love have.
Its pure. Its bliss. Its beautiful.
But we allow ego to take over instead. Ego is a liar. But it feels safe. It makes us feel though and secure. So we linger in ego. Because of it we miss the greatest thing we have been given. Yes, people’s action will cause us pain. We can’t control how others will see us or how they will love us.
But you can control how you react and what your actions are. I know I am more aware of what I put out to the world now. Loss will teach you. I did me. Love people because its feels good. Some people that I have met are tough don’t like to show emotions because ego tells them it makes them weak to do so. Love those souls a little harder.
Go out of your way for people, help them , love them show them the world still is loving. One action can trigger a bigger effect one that we may not see but do it anyway.
Your response to their actions shows your character not theirs.
Love will heal them.